advice
related to the previous post: the thing about advice is that you have to learn how to use advice
a non-exhaustive list of things that got in my way:
- treating basically everything as advice even though sometimes it’s just like, someone talking about their own experiences and they’re not really thinking about whether or not it would apply to someone else (nor should they have to)
- not knowing how to handle when advice from someone i trust doesn’t work…

